Please don't misunderstand why I am recommending this
book to you. While the premise of the
book is about how to improve a bad marriage – I think its application is a
whole lot broader.
For anyone with family, friends, colleagues or
acquaintances who is interested in building solid positive relationships, this
book will be an eye opener. In fact I
think it could also be required reading for posturing leaders of countries –
Rocket Man, anyone?
Once I read the book, the ideas behind it seemed so
obviously right!
At the risk of trivialising an important book, the main
ideas I took from it were:
·
The idea that a relationship will stay
fabulous over time without any effort is a complete myth
·
You can choose to end any relationship but
if you choose to stay, it is up to you to work on yourself and your own
behaviour.
If you expect a
relationship to improve only when both people work on it equally, you'll be
doomed to a very long wait.
It takes effort in all aspects in life. :)
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